Children will be quicker to view their biological parent in a more positive light than the step-parent when witnessing disagreements between both parties. So, when stressful moments and conflict arise (and believe me, they will!) be sure to manage yourself well.
This, of course, does not mean that you can’t ever get upset or stressed. However, it does mean that during these moments you must put a great effort into managing your emotions, and not overreact toward the biological parent or child.
Keep in mind that one task for children in a blended family is to determine whether loving their step-parent is worth the risk.
By making a commitment to maintain your cool during disagreements with your partner/spouse while in the presence of your non-biological children, you communicate a message that says they have a good reason to believe you are worth the risk.
A well informed family makes a HAPPIER and STRONGER family!
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