Co-parenting with your Ex-partner (I know, I know, but we have to do it for the kids!):

Based on research, extremely negative relationships between ex-partners has a negative impact on the well being of the child, and on your current relationship as well. It is also said that the quality of the existing relationship is ENHANCED when both of the ex-partners communicate UNEMOTIONALLY (i.e. a "professional-like" manner) Keeping it business, keeps the thin line from breaking! :-)

Tips on effective co-parenting:

• SHOW SUPPORT to the other parent on goals they may set for the child.
• HONOR any arrangements made.
• FOLLOW-UP with the other parent if unable to FULFILL COMMITMENTS.
• MAINTAIN RESPECTFUL BOUNDARIES for the ex-partners personal life.
• ACTIVELY SUPPORT YOUR CHILD'S connection to the other parent (regardless of personal feelings).

The Child's WELL BEING should always come 1st!!


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